I met Amal in a roundabout way. She slipped in unannounced to an English conversation practice time I was holding and made herself at home. Now I was invited to Amal’s home to be interviewed for an assignment. A Libyan friend was there keeping her company. Amal introduced me to Manal who was newly arrived in my country. I couldn’t go beyond introduction comments as she had almost zero English. Manal just sat there and looked at Amal and me working on her assignment, absorbing all the unfamiliar dynamics of a relationship with a foreigner. When the assignment was completed the real purpose of the visit was made clear. “Would you please help Manal with learning English, Joy?” I was delighted to get into another Libyan home. I love Libyan women. They have so little contact with anyone outside of their Libyan community. It is very rare for a Libyan woman to get a hearing of the Good News or meet a follower of Jesus face to face either in her own country or my country. I had prayed so often that the Lord would help me to meet Libyan women but I couldn’t make it happen. They usually keep to themselves and I couldn’t find the way in. Now my heart began to beat fast with an inner yes! I agreed to visit Manal in her home. A short while later I made the trip to the address she gave me. It was situated in one of the most run down areas of a city where there is alot of crime. As I drove up I groaned. Some of the houses around Manal’s home were vacant and boarded up. I went up to Manal’s front door which was boarded up and knocked. I knocked harder. No answer. There was no door bell. Now what, I thought? Was I really at the right place? I went around to the side door and knocked repeatedly. Still no answer. It, too, was boarded up. Then I got my cell phone out of my purse and called her. I could hear the phone ring inside. A person answered, “Come around to the back door.” I noticed there was no doorbell there, either. I wondered how anyone was supposed to get in!
As I stood there waiting to get into Manal’s home the first time I thought how symbolic it was spiritually of trying to get into the lives of Muslim women. Sometimes it seems impossible to make the connection. God really does open doors for us but they are not always the normal “front doors” you would expect. In fact I would have to say that it has rarely been the “front doors”(direct contact) that open for me. The “side doors”(connections and referrals) and “back doors”(unusual meetings) open in surprising ways. In God's time and way, He will open the door for you.